"My Dad died last New Year's Day and from the moment he passed away, there are two relatives that I have completely cut out of my life. When Dad was alive, because they were his family, we gritted our teeth and were polite but there's no need anymore to fake it"
I'm sorry to hear about your dad!
However this was your prerogative to not have these people in your life? I believe so...
So why can't Tiger have the same option?