As you keep the Commandments, you will be blessed. I have seen it over and over again in my 62 years. Failure to keep the commandments, not to be virtuous, always leads to pain and misery.  Sex is only ordained for marriage and sex outside of marriage is breaking the law of chastity, Stop worrying about your swing and start worrying about your eternal soul. No success compensates for failure in the family. Visit the website of the Savior of man,  www.mormon.com.  You are in our prayers for both a physical and spiritual recovery. You can still recover your wife. Dr. Willard Harley the author of His Needs, Her Needs would help you. You can reach Dr. Harley through his website, marriagebuilder.com. I would love to see a Tiger return to his family. Families are forever. This is the only Major that is worth pursuing. Talk to Johnny Miller.