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| | | | | 606.2 in reply to 606.1 | |
I'm new here and I've been reading up past discussions to get a feel of how things were progressing. I take it that it has been some time since anybody posed a new question to revive the discussion and start a new thread(?). I'm very happy to start a discussion on any topics, and since the latest news has been on the sad loss of Pope John Paul II, who courageously fought his illness till his very last breath, and gracefully stood by and blessed all fellow Christians till the end of his physical life, I'd like to pay tribute and pose a question surrounding his papacy. Does anyone think that the Pope and his papacy had helped to prepare and pave way for the second coming of our Lord Jesus Christ that Christians have been so patiently waiting for the last 2000 odd years? I hope this would be an interesting topic to talk about. Look forward to contributing. |
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| | | | | 606.3 in reply to 606.2 | |
| It would seem to me that a discussion of the life and work of JohnPaul would be interesting. Altho I am not a Catholic and I do not share some of his thinking on a number of topics, I would find him to be a springboard to discussion. I do believe he was a good man, a brave man, and one who lived his faith in a special way. Comment? Don Berghuis 4/6/05 |
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| | | | | 606.4 in reply to 606.3 | |
I'm not Catholic either, and until recently, I knew very little about the Pope except for his kind face and the loving blessings, kisses and laying of hands seen on TV, which all too often just seemed like an act.
His ill health had drawn my attention to him because of his perseverance in continuing his work while being mentally unfit. I started to see the God's driving force through this man. And so I started to look deeper into who he actually was, what kind of a character and personality he was, and what kind of purpose God was instilling into this world figure.
Surely, there is a great deal to learn from this man's life, I thought. Surely, there is great significance to what this man's deeds had to do with Jesus's teachings. And I embarked on this journey to study his life, hoping to further shine a light on how the Lord had (or had not) intended for us to live by the Pope's example.
I've started with Beliefnet's Pope page, which was entitled "His Impact". An article first caught my attention: "The pope who loved too much" by Rabbi Shmuley Boteach. In this article, the Rabbi talked how the Pope had failed to condemn the threat of terrorism towards the end of his pontificate, and he felt "the great failing of John Paul II’s life was that he loved too much. Like a parent who cannot see the failings of a child, he refused to accept that real evil lurks in the heart of men".
I had personally pondered over the question of the Iraq war for a long, long time, especially around last year's election time. At the time, I felt my own opinion sided very much with the Rabbi's. And yet, I've also posed the question about loving our enemies as our Lord had taught us, that: "if another believer is overcome by some sin, you who are godly should gently and humbly help that person back onto the right path. And be careful not to fall into the same temptation yourself." (Galatians 6:1)
Voltaire said, "Love truth, but pardon error."
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| | | | | 606.5 in reply to 606.4 | |
| I recently read a bitter right wing diatribe against this pope and all the popes of years past...written by some guy who calls himself jrob on line. He brought out the evils of the Inquisition, the blood spilled on the Crusades, and the failure of this and other popes to speak to this issue. I suppose, if this guy is correct, that I would have hoped that , in line with what JohnPaul did in reaching out to Jews, the Eastern Rite CAtholic church, Protestantism, Muslims and others that he would have done something to speak to those evils---the burnings at the stake of dissenters and so on. However, those means of dealing with dissent were common practice with all nuances of faith both Protestant and Catholic...and tho he should have spoken out against it, that wasn't really what John Paul's papacy was about. It would be my view that , on balance, he was a good man, who did the best he could with what was presented to him. I hope the next pope is somewhat less conservative than JohnPaul, but that will be awhile to find out. Don Berghuis 4/8/05 |
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| | | | | 606.6 in reply to 606.5 | |
Don, you've brought out a very interesting point indeed! Does it take a world figure to be 'radical' in order to serve the greater purpose of the Lord?
As we know, world figures such as the nation leaders, monarchies, the Pope, etc. are observed by us as role models on a daily basis. The sheer fact that they are celebrities, apparently, makes it more important to contemplate and consider their every move before acting, reacting, or saying anything, as each of their deeds would be scrutinized by critics. This self-consciousness no doubt has often made these persons of fame unable to act spontaneously according to their own free will. And yet, I see something quite remarkable about John Paul II in the last 5 years. He put aside personal ego, pride and dignity, and continued to serve and still be watched in the limelight when obviously he was physically and mentally unable to cope with the many demands of the world expected of him. This is significant, for I see that it wasn't about "what" his deeds were in these years, but that he "did" do, and he "lasted" to do, whatever he had to accomplish. That courage and determination, in essence, spells out a radical at heart.
Our journey as followers of Jesus is a road that does not end from the moment we receive the Lord as our saviour till we leave to be with Him again. We will never be rid of our sins while we're in our physical bodies, and also will never be able to fully satisfy another person's needs, expectations and requirements. But we serve the Lord, and only to Him, and so we can be free from the chains and torments of other people’s opinions, judgments and convictions if we simply feel we can answer to the Lord.
I remember I had a discussion with my brother about Bush’s decision to invade Iraq, and at one point, my brother was trying to analyse whether that decision would have been a decision that Christ would make. And I remember I commented at the time that I believed our President had prayed long and hard for wisdom to make such a choice. We, as Christians, pray perpetually to hear God’s voice so as to make our own daily decisions. That connection itself is as holy and unique as each of us is. If such a world figure was to feel that he could answer to the Lord and the nation by making such a brave and provocative decision, who are we to judge if that choice was “okayed” by the Lord or not?
Jesus was a radical himself while he walked on earth. He, also, never intended to answer to another human being, except to our Heavenly Father. He demonstrated with his own life how one should serve, love, and heal while achieving God’s will as well as fulfilling one’s own free will. I feel that there is a lot to learn from one another simply by observing the driving force behind their deeds, rather than the deeds themselves. A good man is an average man, but I’m looking for the “light” within the good and average man. This is my humble 2 cents for this episode. |
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| | | | | 606.7 in reply to 606.6 | |
| I have a grand daughter who sometimes is wise beyond her 15 years. When she was about 12, she was wearing a homemade bracelet, product of a summer camp activity. I asked to see it and it had on it....WWJD. Asked her what it meant and she said "What Would Jesus Do?" and proceeded totell her grandfather (50 plus years older than her) that this meant that everytime you dosomething, you should ask what Jesus would do in the same situation. I now have a ring with those letters on it and I use it as an opener whenever possible to talk with others about my guide for my life. There is also a book with that title, which is kind of enlightening for our behavior. Don Berghuis 5/10/05 |
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| | | | | 606.8 in reply to 606.7 | |
Oh Don, thank you so much for sharing such an intimate but beautiful story from your family!! I’ll have to remember this acronym and do something with my kids like you did.
[Just want to say on the side that although you've always sounded very wise, you didn't sound like you had a grand daughter 15 years of age! Perhaps one who stays in "the light" stays young! :-) ]
I have no hesitation at all that we should always first seek wisdom from the Lord when making a decision, and as I said, we would pray and meditate on scriptures to gain such wisdom. The only thing I have reservation about would be when people speculate on how another person has come to making certain choices, closely scrutinize and judge on every move, and then criticize for the sake of proving one’s wrong, all just because the other person is being a little different from what would be considered as the norm. I don’t dispute with the fact that we as Christians should rebuke one another if we clearly see that the other person is deviating from the truth or from his/her walk with the Lord, preferably quoting relevant scriptures in supporting one’s point being made. But as decision makers, we have to resist the temptation of becoming a people pleaser, and reflect often to make sure that our priority in our intention is to please God.
Sorry to be using the Iraq war as an example again, but I think this was something that I had pondered long and hard enough in my mind, and it had caused me enough mental disturbance to keep bringing it up in discussion so I could really decipher what was right and what was wrong. I would probably have voted against invading Iraq. But then I supported the President anyway. I think as flesh and body, we are frail and weak. Even if we would often ask WWJD, and that we had known WJWD, we sometimes would still choose to satisfy our own desires, or to choose the easiest way out. As faithful as Peter was to Jesus, he was still to betray the Lord 3 times before the cock crowed. People sometimes would go as far as bending the truth of God’s Word to suit their own needs. Just like, they would go as far as accusing that Jesus was gay?!?!?
We humans are full of contradictions. Dr. Robert Schuller’s (founder of Crystal Cathedral & TV Ministry “Hour of Power”) latest book was entitled “Don’t Throw Away Tomorrow”. In there, he gave impressive lessons on the notion of contradictions and assumptions. He explained that many people walk away from potentially good ideas because they see there are some contradictions in the dream and they choose not to be a part of it. Sometimes it’s wise, but sometimes it is simply a waste. And then, he said we are suppose to be free in America, but we still have to live under law. Or see, he said, the contradiction of people who are so wealthy, successful and honored, yet still feel something is missing and they're unfulfilled. We could get totally confused over orders: We're told to “take it easy” but also “get with it.” To “be serious” but also “relax!” To "have fun" but also "be good!" To "take a chance" but also "take care!" We're asked, "When are you going to make up your mind?" as often as we're advised, "Don't rush into it." "Strike while the iron is hot." "Haste makes waste" … or "the early bird gets the worm." And then, "Fools rush in where angels fear to tread."
To cut the long story short, Dr. Schuller suggested 3 important points to consider:
1) Recognize that life “is” full of contradictions;
2) Resolve our contradictions positively;
3) Let go of life's insignificant contradictions.
And then he went on to talk about how some people give up believing in God because they see contradiction. The most commonly seen skepticism would be “How could one believe in a good and just God, when there was so much suffering and horror and tragedy in this world?” For this he offered the famous French wartime philosopher, Simone Weil, who taught the rationale that, "The world is so full of horror and hell and evil, that there must be somewhere the opposite force of goodness and truth. That means somewhere God must be.” Or simply, “There can be no shadows unless there is a sun.”
But what made me really value this lesson most was his conclusion on the fact that “The ultimate contradiction was resolved on the cross.” When death contradicts life. And Jesus gave us the answer. Jesus Christ said, “I am the resurrection and the life and whoever lives...[Message truncated] |
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| | | | | 606.9 in reply to 606.8 | |
Wisdom rearding the Pope? Hmmmmmm. I guess I am really not one to speak to that, not being a Catholic. But I do think that some of the stuff coming out about Sainthood for him strikes me as being quite premature. I don't really feel that saints have any real meaning to me....Mary, the mother of Christ, Peter, the other disciples, Paul, and any other person on whom sainthood has been conferred by the Catholic church does not grant them really any power towards salvation. It seems to me that all who believe on the Lord Jesus Christ are, at some level , saints. You--- me---anyone who believes and calls on the Lord for guidance and salvation is a saint. At the same time, all of us ----Mary, Paul, Peter, Pope JP2, and any other are sinners...in need of salvation, which was given to us by the sacrifice of Christ. You know, I wish that some others would come into this discussion, don't you? BTW, you commented on me and my 15 year old g daughter. Just so you know, I am 72 years old, have 3 children of my own and two step kids, 9 g kids, and 2 great grand kids...an old guy who keeps plugging along and still wondering what all of God's plans are. Don Berghuis 4/11/05 |
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| | | | | 606.10 in reply to 606.9 | |
Yes Don, I also hope that some more people will join in our discussion. I guess we'll get them if we sincerely pray for them to appear. But in the meanwhile, I’m enjoying this conversation with you just as it is! It is God’s plan that we meet here. As a mom slightly older than half your age, and a bit of a simpleton busying with 2 young toddlers and still planning to have more (!!), I have a lot to learn from you. You at your golden age but still “plugging along”, as you’ve put it, IS the prime example of the “driving force” that I look for in another person to ruminate over with. And as we continue to learn from each other and minister to each other, it doesn’t just help with our own spiritual journeys, but also those whose paths will cross ours or will get to read a piece of our minds in time to come. Just as we’re talking now, God could be completely turning a person’s life around by using our exchange of inspiration! For this sheer reason, I’m willing to take my time and make this meaningful.
Now, you’ve raised another very interesting point for me to write about in this section.
“Sainthood” has a lot of meanings to me probably due to my background. We Chinese venerate a number of human beings while they were alive, and continue to do so when they “transcend” to the spiritual realm. This practice of paying tribute has deep roots from ancient Chinese history and mythology. Anyone as close to us as our deceased ancestors, to learned scholars/philosophers such as Confucius, to immortal beings such as Guan Yin (Goddess of Mercy), would be remembered, praised, and worshipped in prayers and offered incense or sacrifices by some. From ancient time, Chinese culture and traditions were influenced by the “Mandate of Heaven” whereby the emperor was seen as the “son of heaven”, Toaism with the belief of “yin and yang” forces, Buddhism whereby one is enlightened by the realization of the absence of self, and a number of other myths on spirits, energies, gods and goddesses.
Amongst all these different stimuli, I grew up attending a Christian school my entire childhood and youth. Now if that doesn’t spell out confusion for a kid, I don’t know what does!
But each day as I walk my adulthood, I understand more what my heritage does for me as a Christian. I see that instead of denouncing all that the Christian religion had taught me as Satanism, I should embrace it knowing that it is a part of who I am that I can never separate from. I am as unique as God had made each one of us, and so my whole belief system as a self will serve a greater purpose in this world. It is through the love of the uniqueness of my origin that I choose to continue in associating with a number of the elements, practices and rituals of my own culture despite my Christian beliefs.
Catholicism is also a man-made, organized belief system. Saints is one element of the uniqueness of this particular system. I wasn’t able to comprehend the significance of the veneration of Virgin Mary until I experienced great pain and loss in my own life, and feeling the pain of Mother Mary when she lost Jesus on the cross, but still remained in full faithfulness to God. And Don, you’re right, praying to Mary does not bring about salvation. True salvation is through Jesus Christ. And so I want to clarify and inform about this here.
In a recent attempt to clear some doubts in my head, I had to thank the Lord in pointing me to read an excerpt from a book whereby Pastor Jack Hayford talked about how we not only need to grow vertically with Jesus, but horizontally with people. And when I meditated on the notion, reflections told me, also, that our horizontal growth should include the spirits of those on the other side who love us. It could be our deceased loved ones, it could be the Saints. But each one of us is a soul that carries an energy that is unique, and so through the association with that energy in another soul, we get to experience a part of the other entity that is also connected to God from within. And as the old saying goes, “All roads lead to Rome”. Recognizing the loving energy in people or spirits gives us a connection with the Divine light and love. This is an important process of enlightenment and healing.
The same goes for JPII, I suppose. In the same sense, JPII represents the kind of hero who appeals to a great number of people. And what is intriguing, I feel in particular, is the number of young people he’s able to connect to. One just has to take 1 look at the TV broadcast of his funeral to feel the power of the overwhelming turnout in Rome, and the outpouring of emotion worldwide, especially among young people. Whatever qualities of his had appealed to the crowd, he had served an important purpose of pulling people closer to God. That, as I see, isn’t idolatry, far from it.
Apparently, in 1993, JPII said on World Youth Day in Denver Colorado, "Christ is knocking very hard at many hearts, looking for people like you to send out into the vineyard where an abundant harvest is ready." Well, the harvest seem...[Message truncated] |
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| | | | | 606.11 in reply to 606.10 | |
Grace----thought I would share something with you. About 40 years ago, specifically in 1961, I moved with my family from Michigan to Ct to go to graduate school at the UConn School of Social Work. One of the things that brought me here to Ct was the fact that , of all the grad schools I had considered, this was the only one that had a church of my denomination (the Christian Reformed Church which grew out of the Dutch Reformed Church of the Netherlands). We came here and found that the church we expected might be here was actually a group of transplants from our denomination that had moved to this area from other parts of the country...and the total number was 10 adults and maybe 15 children. But I believe that God brought my wife and me to this place to make a 20% increase in the adult population and a 30 % increase in the child population. One of the men who was starting the group here was a transplant from the Nethrlands named Bob Rockx. He and his wife became good friends of my wife and me. Actually, one day we had absolutely no food for supper as my GI Bill check and my scholarship $$$ had not yet arrived. Bob and his wife brought over a box of clothing that their children had out grown and they thought our kids could use. In the bottom of the box was a can of Dinty Moore Hash. That served as supper that night. The next day, my GI and my scholarship checks arrived, so the box our friends, the Rockx's had brought us was the tiding over until the check arrived. That cemented a relationship for us. Our church grew and prospered and now 40 years plus later, we are a strong neighborhood influence in South Windsor Ct. About five years ago Bob became ill with cancer and he fought the disease for the years since that. This morning at 3:20 a.m., Bob went to be with the Lord...and I have been crying off and on throughout the day...but I know he is in a far better place now and isn't hurting anymore. If you would be willing to pray for Bob's wife (Tanetta Ruth) and for me as a long time friend of Bob's, I would be grateful. Our pastor described Bob as a saint of the Lord, and I believe that is accurate. I am sad , yet happy today..for Bob is now truly alive. Don Berghuis 5/11/05 Edited 4/11/2005 9:25 pm ET by DL_BERGHUIS1
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